How to Effectively Treat a Pimple

No matter how well we do in our respective skincare routines, most of us are going to get a zit from time to time. When that happens, here are a few tips to help minimize the damage.

When to act:

Wait for the pimple to come to a head similar to the photo. If there is a clearly defined white head to the top, the blemish is ready to be released from under your skin.

Also, as much as I know you’re dying to, never pop your zit if you have to put on makeup later in the day. Your face will be red and irritated, the burst blemish will ooze making concealing the damn thing a nightmare, and your pimple will probably come back with a vengeance from being open and exposed to the makeup, dirt, and bacteria of the day. Another benefit of zapping your zit at night is that the red mark left behind won’t be in the sun for a good 10-12 hours. If you are sensitive to the sun, exposing red marks from previous breakouts to the light can lock them in for a long time.

Ok, so now that you’ve shown very admirable self-restraint and waited until you’re home for the night, and your pimple has reared its ugly head, you’re ready for action.

What to do:

First, gently wash your face with your normal face wash using warm water, and pat your face dry with a towel.

Next, follow the steps from this guide: How to Pop a Pimple

Damage control and healing:

Finally, soak part of a cotton ball or cotton pad in a toner that is formulated without alcohol but that has soothing and anti-bacterial properties, and occasionally dab it directly onto your healing zit wound. I absolutely love the Michael Todd True Organics Blue Green Algae Toner. If you only buy one product from them, I’d buy this. I can’t say enough good things about it (but I’ll try later when I review their line).

Keep dabbing the affected area for about 30-60 minutes after you’ve popped your pimple while the wound is oozing and the skin is working on closing itself back up. This will help soothe and clean your skin, keeping the zit from coming back worse than before and also preventing a hard, raised scab from forming (I’ve had way too many of those :P).

This method worked like an absolute charm for me this week. I had a nasty blemish on my chin caused by irritation from rubbing against my husband’s new beard. Thanks, honey! That night, I followed my regular routine and put on a combination of a little moisturizer (MTTO Citrus Cream Moisturizer) with an anti-oxidant-rich serum (Antiox Serum) that really softens and nourishes my skin. The former pimple was red but not at all scabby or inflamed the next morning, so I concealed the redness like crazy, and then the next day, I was delighted to discover that what had been a nasty, fairly painful zit looked like it had been gone a week. No joke.

The key is to be patient for it to come to a head and to pop it at a time when you can prevent as well as counteract further irritation.

Things to avoid: I don’t recommend drying a zit out out as this can cause flaking and irritation. Also, the skin can overproduce sebum and often holds on to clogs for longer when it is too dry. A little salicylic acid when you first feel like it’s forming might help prevent the pimple, but just keeping from touching it except when you’re (gently) washing your face should allow your foe to die out on its own. If it doesn’t, just ride it out. Concealing a non-irritated pimple really isn’t that bad. Dabbing on an extra bit of powder will mattify the area and make it appear smaller.

You know what isn’t easy to conceal? A red, swollen mass.  Unless you have severe or cystic acne, this reaction from a blemish usually occurs due to our impatience trying to pop it too early or when a pimple is handled with dirty hands or before the face was properly washed.

I’ve been there, and I’ve mangled my face and made it so much worse, created deep gashes in my face, and spent 30-45 minutes trying (and failing to conceal my destructive decision). Now that I’m a bit older, wiser, and willing to pick my time (get it?), my skin has never been happier.



Become BFFs with your Ingredients Label: Ground Rules

One of the most important life lessons I have learned has been to question everything and to doubt the “experts.” At the end of the day the best thing to do is to trust yourself and investigate first hand.

Here are a few tips to help you begin decoding ingredients lists:

  1. The higher it is on the list, the more of that substance is in the product, so the top three ingredients should be ones that you think are worth paying for.
  2. The longer the list, the more likely you will react to something negatively (especially if it has added fragrance).
  3. The more ingredients that don’t have easily recognizable or short names, the less natural it is, and the more time it will take you to decode it all and decide if it’s worth putting on your body.
  4. If it has parabens or lauryl/laureth sulfate in it, it AIN’T organic!
  5. Reading the list is the BEST way to know what your product can really do. For example, if it claims to be anti-aging but has no SPF or antioxidants and contains drying ingredients, then it’s just a claim.

Even experts such as dermatologists and cosmetic researchers will tell you that many ingredients like parabens, sodium lauryl sulfate, and phthalates are “safe in low levels.” Please don’t believe this. Here is why: Take a moment and mentally walk into your bathroom and take out every single product that you put on your face, hair, or body or use to clean your mouth. How many are there? How many times a week or even a day do you use them? How many cups or pounds of the “safe-in-low-levels” ingredients do you think you use over the course of a year? All of that is being absorbed into your body through your hair, skin or mouth, affecting your body chemistry.

I’m not telling you to start washing your hair with baking soda or to only buy “all natural” or “organic” brands. They sometimes contain just as much crap. What I am saying is that now, you have the keys to the kingdom, so start using them!

This website is very helpful: Skin Deep. Even if your product or brand has not been rated, you can examine each ingredient that you’re not familiar with and learn about what it is used for and its level of toxicity. Here’s an article that really helped me: Learn How to Read Cosmetic Labels

Knowledge is power. Challenge and investigate anything and everything that doesn’t seem quite right to you. At the very least, you’ll learn something new. At most, you could save yourself anxiety and protect your well-being.

If you’re like me, you worry all the time about seeming rude, impertinent, or paranoid if you speak up, but enough of all that! Remember what is at stake: your health, your peace of mind, and your self-respect. Don’t these things merit ruffling some feathers, altering your habits, cutting out products, or even changing doctors? You are worth it.

Skincare That You Don’t Put on Your Face: Part II

Act Consciously:

Keep your hands off your face! I know you want to, I know you really, really want to, but please DON’T pick at your face. I’ve done it, and I have scars. Even if you’ve washed your hands prior, you inevitably spread bacteria when you pop a zit. Also, you’re going to further irritate the skin. So before you squeeze a zit, ask yourself if doing so is going to hurt or help your skin’s healing. If you have a monster zit that you urgently need gone, do it the night before because there’s nothing worse than spending forever trying to cover up a huge red, and watery lump or gash when you’re trying to look decent before you go out. I found this guide to be really helpful:

Long story short: No touchy! And as an added bonus for your saintliness, you are less likely to get sick because we all touch lots of grimy stuff during the day without realizing it.

Wash/ change your towels and pillowcases regularly. I recommend changing pillowcases about once a week and changing face towels every three or four days. However, feel free to change them more or less frequently as it suits your needs. Also, be sure your towel is getting properly dry between each use. If it’s not, it could be acting as a breeding ground for bacteria and mildew, yuck! So if your bathroom is damp and cool and/ or has poor air circulation, you should hang up your towels in another part of your house or apartment to make sure they get completely dry.

Wash or change out your makeup sponges and/ or brushes regularly. Again, I’d say once per week or so, but you might like to wash, sterilize, or change your makeup tools after each use. It really depends on what you feel comfortable with. Do you have a ton of brushes or get a little OCD about cleaning them? Save money with this DIY brush-cleaner recipe! You can watch the original instructional video here.

Wash your hair or tie it back and/ or cover it, especially when you sleep. Washing and drying my hair annoys me, so I like to put it off, but when I go a few days without washing, my skin often speaks up and says: “Chick, you are spreading oil and bacteria on me, and I don’t like it!” with a few breakouts. Your skin likely does the same, so if you’re “between washes” keep your hair away from your face.

Look after your physical, mental, and emotional states:

Get enough rest! Don’t kid yourself. You need your eight-to-nine-hour beauty sleep. Studies have shown an overall higher mood and an increase in your ability to deal with stress when it does come your way. Avoid playing around on your laptop, phone, or tablet at least an hour before you’d like to turn in as the blue light sends signals to your brain that it’s still time to be up and at ’em for a while. Read more about this and other effects of blue light here. Also, getting to bed before midnight gives you a significantly higher quality of rest. Doctor Oz talks about this and more ways to get better, more restful sleep here.

Meditate or find a way to unwind. Releasing stress and calming your mind and nervous system can only be good for your body and therefore your skin. I like listening to guided meditation especially through YouTube videos by Thich Nhat Hanh, Deepak Chopra, Eckhart Tolle.  Anyone whose voice/ style helps you to relax is good. I also find chanting mantras helpful at times and enjoyed those from Deva Premal and Miten; some of their music/ chants are on their YouTube channel: PrabhuMusic. Many people find that creative outlets like singing, painting, writing, etc, help them to destress.

Move your body in a way that feels good to you. Please don’t torture yourself. Exercise can be fun. If you’re like me, you’re getting really skeptical right about now, but remember to do what feels good. For example, take a walk while listening to music or talking to a friend, participate in a yoga class that’s appropriate for your level, dance to your favorite music, take a Zumba, step aerobics, or a kick boxing class, walk up a flight of stairs or several and then celebrate like Rocky at the end, take Karate, Jujitsu, or Tai Kwan Do, or just move around and clean your place set to music. Forget about attaining a certain heart rate over X time or burning a certain number of calories with your workouts. Instead, just focus on moving your body for at least 30 minutes per day to see your health, mood, and serotonin levels rise, your stress go down, and happiness to spread from the inside out!

Remember: Treat yourself well, treat your skin well, treat your body well, and you will see results.

Night-time Skin Care

…you shouldn’t try to over nourish your skin in the night as very rich and creamy creams interfere with the processes of the skin trying to regenerate. -Viva Woman

I’m not sure if I read this on first or another source, but discovering that my skin didn’t need tons of super-rich moisturizer at night and instead would benefit much better from a light, antioxidant-filled skin care product made a big impact on my thinking and skin care routine. Now, I use very little moisturizer and a lot more of my serum, and I leave my cell-turnover products for the night time only and make sure anything I put on my skin is light and absorbs thoroughly before I turn in.

Check out more useful info about what your skin does at night here:

Skincare That You Don’t Put on Your Face: Part I

Although I am not a nutritionist, a dermatologist, or an aethetician, I’ve had my share of skin issues and learned a good deal from my experiences and personal research about nutrition and skin care. And I can tell you that what we think and the emotions running through us absolutely affect our bodies, just not always in ways we can see (at least not right away). had some findings that support this: However, if you read my previous article on this topic, you know that I disagree with the general notion that topical treatment is the answer to breakouts brought on by stress. So a truly helpful, long-term treatment needs to include stress reduction as well as effective topical treatments to the skin.


Look for foods with nutrients and antioxidants: Make sure to eat plenty of fruits, berries, vegetables, oils, and fats (Omega 3 in fish and other sources, olive oil, avocado)


Eat seeds, nuts, avocados, and the like. Your body and your skin need fat! Contrary to what many of us have been told, fat is not your enemy; just remember to eat it in moderation. It helps keep your skin fed, plumped up, healthy, and glowing instead of flat and dry.

Reduce your daily/ weekly alcohol and coffee intake and/or augment your H2O intake to offset how much you consumed since these can severely dry out your skin.

Drink.Lots.Water. Folks, most of us need at least one liter (eight glasses of 8 oz each) per day. If you’re active, you should easily drink double or triple that amount. It takes discipline to drink as much as your body really needs, but it’s one of the easiest, best, and cheapest ways to promote the health of your entire body and keep from getting sick. As an added bonus, it helps you to feel fuller if you drink water between meals.

Eat yogurt with live cultures like Lactobacillus bulgaricus and Streptococcus thermophilus. This stuff helps your digestion and the balance of healthy bacteria in your body. Don’t go non-fat! It won’t satisfy you, and let’s face it, it tastes nasty! So unless you just really, really prefer or enjoy fat-free yogurt, get reduced fat or just eat a smaller portion of regular yogurt. I recommend buying it plain and adding your own honey or jam to your taste. This way, you have fewer additives, and it’s exactly the flavor and sweetness you like! P.S. Harmful by-products are released in the process of making Greek yogurt. Thankfully, yogurt doesn’t need to be Greek to be healthy, tasty, and have active cultures!


Eating overly-processed foods with lots of additives, chemicals, GMOs, and especially hormones! Many dairy and meat products in the U.S. are chocked full of these. Not saying you have to go all-organic, vegan, or even vegetarian, but pay attention for labels that tell you when products are made without GMOs, chemicals, etc. And start checking ingredients lists. You don’t want to put crap on your face, so don’t put crap in your body because that’s what you’re feeding to your skin.


Going overboard on refined sugar. Everything in moderation, my friends. Eat your cake, and enjoy it! Just don’t have a big portion of sweets at every meal or between meals. Also, look for sweets that satisfy. Fruit can be more satisfying than candy, and as much as I love, love, LOVE milk chocolate, flavored dark chocolate tends to hit the spot and cure my cravings. My favorites are Lindt’s dark chocolate with sea salt and dark chocolate with orange. 😀 As a side note, if you really want the coke-bottle gummies and not fruit, eat them! Just get them in smaller packs (pre-portioned single-serving sizes really help me; if I want more, I have to open a second one, and I’m fully aware that I’m having two servings instead of just one).


Overdoing the dairy. Hey, I love cheese of all shapes and sizes, so I’m the LAST person who’s going to tell you to stop eating it. Just consume your dairy in moderation. If you had a big portion of cereal with milk up to the top of your bowl this morning, maybe don’t eat a whole cheese platter with lunch or dinner, or choose a non-dairy snack later in the day.


Drinking soda every day! Think of drinking a flavored herbal tea with honey and lemon (that you steep yourself) instead. Or at least, reduce the amount and frequency or offset your intake with water. You can give your body and skin more antioxidants with tea (adding milk kills the good stuff, unfortunately). It’s mostly water and therefore low-calorie, and honey also has many health benefits=Win, win, win!


While I definitely have more to say on this topic, I’m going to split it up into several posts because this one is long enough already!

P.S. I realize the font styles/ sizes are a bit inconsistent in this post, but I can’t for the life of me figure out how to make them look the same. If any veteran bloggers or tech wizzes are reading this, feel free to give me some suggestions!

Choosing Skin Care for Acne-prone Skin

Though I currently have only minor breakouts and combination skin, I suffered from significant acne from the age of 16 to age 26. I do not claim to be an expert; however, I have gained insight into caring for my skin and my body that I would like share with you in the hope that you will benefit and be able to avoid some of the problems that I had.

When looking for a good acne treatment, it is important to inform yourself about the ingredients in each product and any potential side effects they may have. Don’t simply take anyone’s word for it (not even mine). Try it out for yourself, and use what works for you. Even dermatologists can be wrong, especially if they do not specialize in acne treatment (and many do not). You get to be the skeptic and the expert here, so take charge of your search!

Some ingredients to avoid are ones that dry the skin such as alcohol, sodium lauryl sulfate or sodium C14-16 olefin sulfonate or those that clog or block pores like Isopropyl isostearate, Isopropyl myristate, Myristyl myristate, Laureth-4, and Oleth-3. In contrast, alpha hydroxy acids (AHA)s like citric acid, glycolic acid, and lactic acid help beneficial ingredients such as antioxidants to penetrate your skin. AHAs are natural acids found in foods like milk and fruit also help to exfoliate, moisturize, treat acne, and reduce acne scars and discoloration (Web-MD).

For any skincare treatment, basic products to use include a gentle but effective cleanser, a toner, a treatment product, and a moisturizer-sunscreen. You might be thinking “but how can I find the best one?” The best approach is to get samples or small sizes to test out the products. But before you spend any money, find a beauty blogger with a similar skin type to yours whom you trust on YouTube or in the blogosphere.

Also look at reviews not just on the brand’s website itself but from multiple sources: You might also look at magazine and newspaper articles online or in print, and I recommend seeing what people on think about it, especially if at least 25 people have reviewed the product. It is very difficult to get an accurate picture of a product from any one review, so look around and listen to what people are saying; then try it for yourself to be sure.

Cleanser: Should clean dirt, excess oil, and possibly remove the makeup from your face while still being gentle. If your face feels tight, itchy, or uncomfortable after using a certain cleanser, try again and get another one or change to a more mild cleanser for the winter months or any time your face feels too dry. Remember to touch your face very lightly as you apply your cleanser. There is no need to scrub to clean your face well.

Here are ones that I like: Michael Todd’s Honey Oat facial wash, MT’s Cleanse and Tone. They suggest Charcoal Detox cleanser for acne-prone/blemished skin. However, since I have not tried it yet, I wanted to recommend the others first.

Toner: It’s not always easy to find a toner that is any good. Though it is typically described as a step to completely clean your face, the benefits of a very good toner also include calming any irritation, having anti-bacterial properties, and adding hydration. Some toners also help to resurface the skin and reduce wrinkles and discoloration or darker pigmentation through the use of alpha hydroxy acids like citric acid and glycolic acid. Overall, a well-formulated toner helps treat and hydrate your face and prepare it to absorb all the treatment and/or moisturizer you are about to apply. *Avoid toners with alcohol or other harsh ingredients.

  • I love Michael Todd’s Blue-Green Algae toner, and it’s formulated to fight acne-causing bacteria while being hydrating and safe for sensitive skin. I also really want to try their Organic Lemon toner because it is formulated with several AHAs and should counteract my remaining discoloration and acne scarring.
  • I’ve also used LUSH’s Breath of Fresh Air toner (Bouffée d’air frais), which is nice, mild, and hydrating. However, their Tea Tree Water and Tea Tree Toner Tabs (Kryptonique) are made to suit oily or acne-prone skin. Though I adore the fact that LUSH’s products are hand made and use mostly natural ingredients, I simply do not think their products are properly formulated to really deliver the all the “good stuff” in them to your skin. So half the equation is missing for me.

Treatment: This could look like a serum, a mask, or an exfoliating product or anything else you’re using for your acne or general skin care. Some treatments you will want to use every day (e.g. serum); others you might use 2-3 times per week (e.g. exfoliant), and still others you will only use once a week (deep treating or cleansing mask).

No treatment is a substitute for a good cleanser and toner and no amount of awesome toner or cleanser can replace your treatment. This applies to every skin type but especially to acne-prone skin because you need to get deep into your pores and not only remove toxins but also give nourishment and healing to your skin. That’s why treatment is so important.

Moisturizer: If you have a good toner and a serum that moisturizes, you might not need this step. However, if your skin is still dry or you just prefer some extra hydration, I recommend these:
For non-greasy but deep hydration try Michael Todd’s Hydration Boost serum I looove this product. I also want to try their Organic Aloe Vera Oil. Both are recommended for all skin types. Don’t be frightened away by the “oil” part of the aloe vera, it’s 100% organic and has four ingredients: Organic Glycine Soya, Euterpe Oleracea (Acai Fruit) Pulp Powder, Organic Aloe Barbadensis, and Lavender Essential Oil, which is NOT on the pore-clogging ingredients list (I checked). Finally, adding a few drops of organic 100% jojoba oil to your moisturizer is a good idea.

Sunscreen: The products necessary to treat acne and acne scarring (AHAs) often make your skin extra sensitive to the sun, but even if they didn’t, a good sunscreen or a moisturizer or foundation that includes an SPF of 30 or higher would still be a must to treat your skin right.

Here are a few to try: The top three sunscreens reviewed by acne sufferers on the forums were

  1. Neutrogena Ultra Sheer Dry-Touch Sunblock SPF 30,
  2. Neutrogena Visibly Even Daily Moisturizer, SPF 30, and
  3. Aveeno Positively Radiant Daily Moisturizer SPF 30.

It seems as though Dermalogica’s Oil Free Matte SPF 30 might be a winner; it is a little pricey at $48 for 1.07 oz, so you might look into getting a sample. I have used a Dermalogica sunscreen in the past and liked it. Also, their Solar Defense Booster SPF 50 (also $48) is customizable as you can add drops of the product to your moisturizer or into your foundation.

Whatever variations you choose, the products you use MUST work well as a team. Just as we can’t mix oil and water, you don’t want to use any product that will either cancel out the effects of another or that will magnify the others’ effects to a level that could irritate or harm your skin. This is why I recommend following a skin regimen that was made to work as a system such as Michael Todd’s regimens for acne-prone/oily skin and acne-prone/oily sensitive skin or The Regimen as presented on (see the picture below)

Personally, I love skin care products that use as many organic ingredients as possible while making sure the nutrients, vitamins, etc. are delivered to my skin. I believe I have found this in Michael Todd True Organics (MTTO). The trial/travel-size “Discovery Collection” of five key products for acne-prone skin (and for all skin types) costs about 29€ and lasts about one month. MTTO also grous five of their full-size products as regimens, which are made to work as a system for each skin type. Right now, they cost from 51€ to 62€, which is about a 50% savings for each regimen. The regular acne/oily regimen costs 51€ and the sensitive version is about 55€.

Pictured above is the Michael Todd True Organics regimen for sensitive oily or acne-prone skin.

The benefits of and using The Regimen are that there is a whole online community using it, and the website gives detailed information about acne and acne treatment. In addition, other acne sufferers are talking about nearly every acne-related topic imaginable on the site’s forums. The products are minimally packaged, come in different sizes (one month, 3-4 months, travel size), and have been formulated for maximum effectiveness with a minimum of ingredients. Finally, the founder of the site Dan Kern and his team are very accessible and are known to respond quickly to questions and feedback. Personally, I have found that benzoyl peroxide (2.5%), the staple treatment of this method was far too drying and harsh on my skin when my acne was bad. However, many people swear by it, and Kern’s formulation is a gel so it is never white and doesn’t get lumpy or clumpy.

Because the products from Michael Todd True Organics and are designed to work together as a system, it is essential that you use them as they were intended for the minimum amount of time they recommend to see results before you decide if you like them or not.

However, if a certain product from a system or skin care line negatively affects your skin after you have used it a few times, you should change the recommended steps. Keep in mind that some products such as masks may tingle or even burn for the first few minutes. If it does not stop or your skin is red, irritated, or dry after you have left it on the minumum-recommended time and washed it off completely, then I would definitely stop using that product and either substitute a similar but less potent one from the same manufacturer or just eliminate that step from your routine altogether.

Also, if you are using other treatments, especially those prescribed by a doctor such as Retin-A, sulpher wash, or Accutane, you will likely need to treat your skin differently. For example, Accutane is extremely powerful and tends to sensitize and dry out skin significantly. So, you would not want to use the entire Regimen on top but would be better served using MTTO’s Sensitive Skin regimen.

No matter how quickly you want your skin to clear up (everyone has an event they want to look their best for) or what kind of results are predicted, stick with The Tortoise on this one: “Slow and steady wins the race.” It’s not going to be like waving a magic wand. Build up to your optimal level of treatment slowly, maintain that level for as long as you need to in order to see satisfactory results, and have a long-term maintenance plan to keep taking care of your skin.

Your acne is an outward expression of what is going on inside your skin and your body. Getting rid of it with only superficial methods is like cutting off the top of a weed and expecting it to go away forever. And blasting the weed with harsh chemicals? That only harms the ground beneath and keeps the good things from growing. That’s why I believe that what you do to take care of your body, mind, and spirit are equally essential to clear skin and a better quality of life.

Stay tuned! I will write about these issues in my next post

Here’s a fuller list of comedogenic or pore-clogging ingredients.

My Skin Story:
As a teen, I had very oily skin and deep, painful breakouts. At my most oily, I could consistently turn an entire oil-absorbing sheet clear and make a few spots on another sheet. I thought the best solution was keeping my skin squeaky clean, getting rid of all the oil I could, and killing off as much bacteria as I humanly possible by essentially nuking my face.

I didn’t realize until recently that I have been using entirely the wrong types and combinations of products on my skin over the years. Even when I had bad acne, it wasn’t the oil itself that was the problem, it was that my oil and sebum production were not balanced. Can you guess what causes this? Over-drying the skin. While this is not the only cause, drying out your skin or irritating/overstimulating by using exfoliating products can make your oil glands start producing overtime.

Read what founder of, Dan Kern, says about his own experience over-washing his face here.
Dermatologist Audrey Kunin, MD, Teresa Stenzel, Bioelements Director of Education, and Dermalogica’s research all back up my assertion that stripping the skin causes your skin to produce too much oil and sebum to compensate for inadequate moisture.